Drug Rehab for and Recovering Addicts
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Successful recovery from drug addiction is possible, but it will be the challenge of a lifetime. Successful recovery can be the most empowering and self-affirming thing you ever do!
My journey to recovery from addiction started thirty- four years ago and I remain drug free until today without relapse.
The word recovery as described in Dictionary.com means:
- the regaining of something lost or taken away
- restoration or return to health from sickness
- restoration or return to any former and better state or condition
So recovery, though difficult, is a positive journey, that will bring you back to a previous state of wholeness. You may have lost yourself for years in addiction, but if you get help, you will have the opportunity, to have a second chance at a new life.
You need to be Ready
You will first of all need to have a desire to become sober. No one can make you get sober if you do not want to. It is your life to do with as you choose.
You also don't need to get to the point of loosing everything and becoming homeless and or going to jail, but you do need to be sick and tired of living the vicious cycle of addiction.
When you feel you are ready, go get help. Don’t get help as a favor to anyone other than yourself. Do it for you!
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You need the Support of Others
When you have made a decision to get help, you will need to find someone to help you become sober. This might be an addiction or treatment facility or seeking help from your local Rabbi, Priest, or spiritual leader.
The point is you must collaborate with some who is committed in standing by you until you can be sober. If you choose a treatment facility, do your homework and find one whose success rate is good and not merely a place that houses you for thirty days and then turns you loose.
If you choose a treatment facility, do your homework and find one whose success rate is good and not merely a place that houses you for thirty days and then turns you loose.
There are also Religious treatment centers that are helpful, like New Life for Girls, New Life for Boys, Rapph House, Celebrate Recovery, etc, (not endorsements). You can go on line for an extensive list of Religious treatment centers.
They tend to be strict and do not allow even smoking, so find a treatment center you think you give you a greater opportunity for success.
Get Professional Help
Therapy can be painful, but it will help you to discover who you are and what lead you to this self-destructive behavior. It will uncover the who, what, why, when, where or of your addiction.
Eventually you will learn what triggers to avoid and coping mechanism that can help you stay strong in times of temptation. When seeking professional help, ask friends of family if they know of a good counselor. If finances are a problem, Catholic Charities, the Salvation Army or your local teaching hospital may offer, discounted or free help.
Get Spiritual Help
If you choose a spiritual leader as counselor, choose someone you feel safe with and has a repetition for confidentiality.
Though many clergy are not licensed to counsel in matters of addiction, they can address matters of spiritual healing and forgiveness.
In addition, you might ask if they may know of someone in the congregation who has been successfully sober and they can be a non-judgmental support for you.
Change your Environment
Create a sober environment for yourself. Everyone at home must agree to partner with you in getting sober, this means not drugs or alcohol in the home at any time.
Let you old friends know that you are getting sober and that you will not be having any contact with them at this time. Stay away from your old favorite haunts. If necessary do not even drive or walk past them. Do not watch movies or TV where people are drinking or getting high as this may be a trigger.
Healthy Diet
Once you have stopped using, you body needs to be restored to health. You may consider the holistic route, and seek the help of a Naturopathic Dr.
Naturopathic medicine can help you back on the road to physical and emotional recovery without
the use of drugs.
Ask your naturo-pathic physician about the benefits of doing a body cleanse. You can find several detox programs at you local health food store.
Drink lots of water and eat plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables as this helps to cleanse your body from toxins.
Prayer
Prayer will address the spiritual part of you that has been lost for a very long time. Prayer will help you reconnect with God, who loves you.
Praying will help you to reconnect with your own spirit. As you begin to establish a new connection with God.
Prayer will give you strength, positive guidance and give you needed peace.
Forgive and Make Restitution if Possible
Eventually when you are over the hump and feeling stronger, you will need to go to those you have hurt and ask their forgiveness. Ask your counselor when he/she thinks it is time to do this.
Remember, because you are now sober, everyone will not necessarily be ready to forgive you. If they do not forgive you do not worry about it.
You
have made the step to begin to make amends. Most of all, you must learn to love
and forgive yourself. Your addiction was a part of your past and it do not
define who you are now. Move forward to sobriety!
Establish Positive Relationships
Keep you life filled with positive people and activities. Perhaps there were some things you always wanted to persue in the past.
Begin to write a novel, begin to draw, go back to school and take a course or get your degree, begin to exercise. This is your time of rebuilding a new life and establishing new positive behaviors. This is you time to live life again.
Be Patient with yourself
If you should relapse, do not beat yourself up. Forgive yourself immediately, get up, dust yourself off and continue on you path to sobriety.
Stay close to your support system, remember to avoid, people places and things that may trigger your desire to use. As you stay on your path to healing, you are getting stronger and stronger each day!
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Very informative!
This is the first page on this site that I have read & it is really inspiring me to share my story. Even though my journey is not as positive, I believe getting my voice out there will do me some good. Thanks for the great words!
My son is doing real good. We are proud of him. He and wife are now going to a marriage counselor.
He is taking Suboxian and it is helping.
Thank you so much for sharing this. There are many hubs listing various steps for recovery, but the fact that this is something you have been through personally really makes it more impactful. It is wonderful that you are using your experience to exert a positive influence over others. Keep up the great work!
Addicts are not bad people trying to get good..they are sick trying to get well. Don't take the blame and don't live in the 'what if' future...live in the present..the here and now..one day at a time. Get into a ALANON program/group. They know what you are going through and it will help you to be there. The 3 C's help...I didn't cause it, I can't cure it and I can't control it.
My son is also an addict. His drug of preference is also pain meds. I hope he chooses to go to an inpatient program. Time will tell. Good luck and God bless all who suffer.
I have seen so many over the years who have some kind of addiction. It is nice that you were able to write this. It will help others I am sure.
My son is going through this right now. I cry and worry about him all the time. He went his self and got help,but his wife is taking it real bad. He did not sell everything or lose everything or steal for it. Its just she thinks that if he loved her he would have never done it at all.
He got hurt at work , a doctor put him on Oxies,told him he would get addicted to it and would have to be weaned off the pills. One day at work, someone went in his car,stole his prescription. he called the doctor told him what happened and the doctor did not believe him and cut him cold turkey. That is how it started. He was never weaned,got hooked and started with draw and went looking to buy them. He thought he could stop on his own. It just got worse. Now he is doing great. Checked his self in to detox and is in a program and going to counseling. I am afraid if his wife leaves him he will relapse
wow , nice one
All, the 12's (plus+) of "the-Recovery-Process" (A.A.'s) 12 Concept's of Service: as Leadership, training! With, the 12 Tradation's. As well 1,000's of "tasks" in-between each (12's) All, of the "Program" of 'fellow-ship'. Steps: are the Personal-Enrichment, WORK, into a newer-direction that Secular & faith-based assistance did'nt work....12 Tradition's: "the Service" given-back toward's the Still-Suffering AS "self-aculation" without seeing result's? "Leadership, training WITH the 12 Concept's (AA) plus+ (is ALL od the program of recovery) InterGroup's & Biz., meeting's
I am proud of you guys for 1st of all admitting it.......2nd over coming it!!!
I used to be married to an Alkie.......when I started to bug him about the drunk driving issue............he dumped me and married his co-worker of 13yrs and is now getting drunk with her !!!
He chose the BOTTLE over ME!
Your story inspires me............there can be change if you ALLOW it to!
God continue to help both of YOU!
Wow, powerful stuff.
Great advice for the people out there that don't think recovery is possible. I did it myself not so long ago and have felt great since. People need to understand there is a life after addiction.
Thanks so much for your hub and I hope it gives hope to at least one person looking for a way out.


















pressingtheissue 13 months ago
I love this article! I am living proof that it is possible to turn everything around. Don't give up!